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5 ways to know if your man still wants his ex-girlfriend back

A lot of people imagine it's only women who brood over an ex, or still retain blissful memories of their guy, that's not true. You will be surprised to know a lot of men too find it hard to let go of an ex and still cling onto a small possibility she could be theirs again. You could have a little problem of your hands if you have a man who still misses his ex and probably still wants her back. Here are 5 ways you could tell your partner still hasn't gotten over his ex-lover.

5 THINGS YOU MUST NOT TELL YOUR FRIEND ABOUT YOUR MAN

 

Yeah, we know it's always fun when you take out time with your friend and regale her with all the wonderful stuffs that's been happening between you and your sweetheart. You're so excited and head over heels in love with your guy you just can't wait to tell your friends about him and hear them tell you how lucky you are that you found yourself such an amazing guy. But, it might not just end there. This could breed envy amongst your friends. Some of them would wish they were in your shoes and could give anything to be in your place, even if it means stabbing you in the back and betraying you. From experience, we have found that hundreds of women have lost their relationships and marriages just because they didn't know when to keep their mouths shut. Here are five things you should refrain from telling your friend about your man, if you do not want to get into problems with her at some point, or worse still, get into problems with your relationship or marriage.

 * Don't keep telling your friend how much of a stud your man is in bed.

8 Things That Marriage Is DEFINITELY NOT!

We all have our different perceptions of marriage is all about. The truth of the matter is that everyone is most likely to define marriage by what they have experienced from marriage. If their marriage has been blissful, then they'll tell you marriage paradise on earth. And if that marriage has been fraught with too many troubles and anguish, then they'll tell you marriage is like hell on earth on earth.Everybody with his or her story, everybody with a different song. We can tell you that truly, marriage can be all of these things, At the end of the day, what your marriage becomes is determined by what you and your partner have made of it. Below are 8 things we can authoritatively tell you that marriage is definitely NOT! 

*Marriage is not trade by barter. Marriage is not about a partner bringing plenty of money to secure his or partner's love. Using money to influence love and marriage will

REASONS WHY NAGGING YOUR MAN ALWAYS MAY RUIN YOUR MARRIAGE

Ask any man what he detests the most in a woman, and he'll tell you that, apart from a woman double dating, nagging is another thing men can't stand in a woman.It simply drives the man crazy. There is nothing more fulfilling for a man like knowing he has at home a woman who can ease his pressure and put his legs up for him on the couch and unburden his heart to. But, the reality is that, not many women can give you the sort of comfort we're talking about here. Instead, what you'll find is that a lot of women lack the capacity to put a rein on their temper and know when not to bug their man with all manner of issues that could've been better dealt with at a more appropriate time. The truth of the matter is that nagging can do your relationship/marriage no good. The following are reasons why you must put a stop to your nagging before it gets you into trouble!

*Your man will lack the enthusiasm to come running home. This is what happens when