Take Your Marriage / Relationship to a new level in 2018; Just do these 5 things... the 4th is key!

Its the end of another year and the beginning of a new one. For a lot of people, the past twelve months have been very difficult ones financially and emotionally. For couples, never in the history of our country has the marriage institution been under such a severe threat as this. While we're battling with the extremely harsh effects of the recession on one side, our marriage institution was under terrible siege on the other side. It was becoming common place to wake up in the morning to the news of either a man who just butchered his wife, or a wife who just ripped her husband's stomach apart in a fit of anger. Sad, isn't it? But, hey, here at Teekayspeaks, we are optimists and we guarantee you all of this would soon be put behind us. We will all begin to enjoy unending bliss in our relationships and unions again, but we have to start working on it from this minute. Surely, there are hundreds of marriages out there that are a bit far from being blissful, here are tips to help you turn your relationship around and take it to a whole new level next year.

COUPLES KILLING EACH OTHER: TIME FOR PARENTS TO WAKE UP

Have you been following the crazy trend happening in our young couples' marriages lately? Aren't you scared? You should be. Every parent, and parents to be, should. This is totally alien to us. In our time, we rarely saw our parents turn each other into punching bags, much less perform mindless knife- stabbing rituals on each other like one who's been put under some strange spell. We didn't see any of that, thankfully. But what we're seeing now isn't anything anyone should feel unconcerned about, even if it hasn't happened to you or anybody close to you. For some reasons we simply cannot explain, our sons and daughters have now turned into some sort of vampires who now seek only to take the lives of the one person they claimed they would love and cherish till death do them part - their partner.

5 SURE STEPS TO TURN YOUR MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP AROUND THIS SEASON

This one's for couples who haven't exactly been having a pleasant time with their relationship/marriage in the last couple of months. Xmas is here and its time to be merry. Families, couples, everyone's gearing up for the Xmas celebrations, but you, you have no idea what direction yours would even take. You and your partner haven't been doing stuffs together lately. You guys barely talk, you try to be polite to each other, but nothing real and natural, all you do is strive to tolerate each other without causing any conflict. This is the Xmas season, the time to loosen up and enjoy the euphoria of the time. It is the time to show love to one another and tighten up that bond between you guys before it finally snaps. Here are few tips you could give a shot if you're desperate to make things work between you and your beau this season.

..."It just happened"

Do you know that many married people; men and women alike who have extramarital affairs do not purposely go out to find a romantic interest outside of their marriage? Many people say, “I didn’t mean for it to happen; it just happened.” But these things “just happen” when we “play with fire” and put ourselves in situations that are difficult to control. 

When we feel a spouse is not attentive to our needs, we can easily feel that we have “fallen in love” with someone else who does seem to give us give us the attention we crave for. When you feel ignored or under-appreciated by a spouse, you should communicate your struggles with your spouse and avoid the danger of seeking comfort elsewhere, especially in an opposite sex.

WANT TO AMPLIFY YOUR SEX LIFE? TRY USING ALL YOUR FIVE SENSES PERFECTLY

 

One of the longest running battles couples all over the world have had to contend with time and time again, is the issue of lack of sexual desire for each other. As couples grow together in marriage, sometimes, they begin to lack that desire to bond together sexually. A lot of factors can be attributed to this. It is no longer uncommon to hear Naija women say, 'I can't remember the last time my husband touched me. And when he does once in blue moon, he can be annoyingly selfish about it.To help couples who still desire each other physically and intimately and seek ways to improve their sex ,life, here are pretty simple ways to do so by using all of your five senses...

Please how can we stop this madness???

Have you noticed the trend yet? Have you been reading the papers lately and keeping abreast with the shocking reports of married couples who are slaughtering each other lately? Are you aware that between late last year to now, there must be at least over a dozen wives and husbands who are in various prisons scattered all over the country for murdering their partners? Sounds unbelievable, right? But its the fact, not fiction. There is evil in the land. Couples, mostly married, are slaughtering each other out of blind rage and bitterness. Couples who once professed love to each other, swore to love each other till their dying day now despise each other so much they hardly can bare to breath in the same air under the same roof.