This one's for couples who haven't exactly been having a pleasant time with their relationship/marriage in the last couple of months. Xmas is here and its time to be merry. Families, couples, everyone's gearing up for the Xmas celebrations, but you, you have no idea what direction yours would even take. You and your partner haven't been doing stuffs together lately. You guys barely talk, you try to be polite to each other, but nothing real and natural, all you do is strive to tolerate each other without causing any conflict. This is the Xmas season, the time to loosen up and enjoy the euphoria of the time. It is the time to show love to one another and tighten up that bond between you guys before it finally snaps. Here are few tips you could give a shot if you're desperate to make things work between you and your beau this season.
PLAN THE HOLIDAYS TOGETHER: This is very important. One of the fastest ways you guys can quickly bond together again is when you both sit down together and plan on how you're going to spend the holidays. Don't let your partner go ahead to make separate plans like the kids going off to spend days with grand parents while your wife plans to go spend time with her siblings or her parents, leaving you to stay back at home to your own devices. This definitely can't help your relationship or get you any closer. Sit down and plan together. Suggest going to places you both like but haven't been to in a long while. You could even insist you should go to places you know your partner is crazy about and can't resist going, even if both of you haven't been doing any lovey-dovey lately.
GET YOUR PARTNER AN XMAS GIFT: When was the last time you got your partner a gift? When was the last time you got him/her an Xmas gift? This is the perfect time to do that. If you and your partner haven't been as intimate as you used to lately, and it worries you, yet your ego won't allow you admit you're hurting inside and you want to call a truce, then getting him/her an Xmas gift might just be a great way to deal with this without bashing your ego in any way. Everyone (well, maybe not everyone, at least before the recession) gets their loved ones Xmas gifts, so getting your partner one is nothing out of the ordinary. Get him/her that really lovely stuff that you know they would love and appreciate, and that would immediately break the ice between both of you.This would immediately tell your partner that, despite the cold shoulders lately, you still care a great deal and wants your sweet old sweetheart back!
SHOP TOGETHER: This one should be fun. When was the last time you guys went out shopping together? This would be perfect time. Whether you're picking up stuffs for the kids or for yourselves, get your partner to go with you so you can get to pick clothings together for yourselves, for the kids. When you get to do stuffs like this together, it brings and pulls you both together. It rekindles the closeness and intimacy that you have lost and brings back a bit of the spark that's been missing in your relationship for a while.
BE ADVENTUROUS, BE ROMANTIC: For young couples who have not started raising kids yet, this one would suit you just fine. And if you've got kids but have already made plans to have them spend time with grand parents, then you can give this a shot too. Why don't you go spend time at places that you find absolutely romantic? Go to holiday resorts, alone, just the two of you, and spend a lot of time by the sea shore, close to nature. Nothing brings back the spark faster than nature, and that has to be the beach! Look good for each other. Feel young and sexy again this Xmas, who knows, we might just come celebrate your baby's christening ceremony about this time next year!
PRAY TOGETHER: Nothing works like prayers. A family that prays together, stays together. We dare say that, a couple that prays together, stays together. This Xmas season, and hopefully beyond, learn to pray together. When couples hold hands and pray together, it keeps the bond tighter,There's a whole lot of terrible stuffs happening around us lately, we do need divine protection to see us through these difficult moments. And this is why praying together as a couple or family becomes important. It could just be the key to bringing your relationship back to life again.
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