THE DEMERITS
1. Except if its the man's design that the wife should be a full time house wife, every man loves a hard working and ambitious woman who also brings financial value to the family table.It can be irritating sometimes when the man realizes that his wife can't even afford to cook him a decent meal on her own except she gives her money. Its so bad that some women are so dependent on their husbands that they cannot buy their own sanitary towels until the husband returns home from work! No matter how much he loves her, he would soon start seeing her as a lazy, idle woman who does nothing but eat and sleep all day waiting for him to go work his butts off and bring money home home for her.
2. The woman loses her
self respect automatically. Because she has to depend on her husband for practically every single need she has, her respect simply goes flying out of the window. Most men don't know this, but a lot of women who have turned full time house wives not out of their own choice, often have difficulty going to their husbands for every little thing they need, but then, do they have any other choice?
self respect automatically. Because she has to depend on her husband for practically every single need she has, her respect simply goes flying out of the window. Most men don't know this, but a lot of women who have turned full time house wives not out of their own choice, often have difficulty going to their husbands for every little thing they need, but then, do they have any other choice?
3.The kids might grow up believing mummy does not have any significance in the home other cook for them and take care of the house. They won't like the fact that they only have to go to daddy all the time for money, they would love for mummy to give them money sometimes too, especially when they need to buy stuffs they know daddy might frown at if they go to him. This situation makes them begin to think daddy is far more important in their lives than mummy.
4. Friends and the society at large do not respect or appreciate the full time house wife. Except for those who appreciate the values of a full time house wife, and the significance of what she brings to the kids through spending sufficient time with them, the society generally see the full time house wife as lazy and unambitious.
OUR ADVICE: Every woman, regardless of how rich your husband may be, must have one form of business or the other that you run by the side. You can, with time, grow this business and turn it into a big money spinning business. And for those whose husbands are not exactly millionaires and may not be able to put sufficient resources together to start a business, you don't have to start really big. Start small, the important thing, first and foremost, is to keep yourself busy, not to begin to think of making mind boggling profits from your business. And if you can't start a business right away, start an online job/ business that will keep you busy and earn you the respect you deserve from your husband and the society.
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