(PART 2) THE GOLDEN SECRETS OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

Wives naturally, like to be praised for, their adornment, marital r/ship & cooking. Always remember to say to her "you are superb & Unique."

Satan tries to be a stakeholder in our marital life. If one spouse is ANGRY, the other must not be ANGRY. Otherwise, Satan has defeated both. Husband & wife should try to be talking to one another with a Smiling Face and a loving heart.It is an act of love and affection and could lower stress level. 

Marital life should be a
haven for tranquillity & peace. It is also the best pleasure of this world. Married couples should always try to achieve that.

RIGHTEOUSNESS! Whomever is blessed with a righteous wife, completed half of his religion, so let him fear Almighty with regard to the other half.

Always say to your wife:“If you see me angry, calm me down,& if I see you angry I will calm you down, otherwise we can't live together honourably.”

For a successful marriage, married couples are urged to control their tongues, & avoid foul speaking by using them freely against each other. Harsh tongue & aggressive tone will not change your spouse- wife or husband. Rather, you should use kind & gentle words, which is an act of love and respect.

Both Husband & Wife should try to keep their secret confidential. It must remain within their boundaries. It should not be exposed to outsiders.

The best solution for any marital problem is through ENDURANCE & GENTLENESS. Words & Decisions taken in ANGER & HIGH EMOTIONS are rash and can severely damage a union.

Unsolicited & unexpected gift strengthens LOVE & MERCY between married couples.Try to surprise your wife/husband, from time to time with nice gifts.

Married couples should avoid undermining d roles of each other in building the family. The roles of each can't be played by the other effectively.

For married couples, there must be moments of happiness & sadness.For happiness, both should be grateful, while for sadness, be patient & pray together, for a family that prays together, stay together and defeat tribulations together.