How did you lose each other? Maybe you can't put your finger on it, but something is definitely not right. That's common too and dont beat yourself up over your unstable marriage. You are not the only one going through challenges in your marriage but by the grace God you will be out of it gloriously.
I know deep inside your hearts you dont want to lose each other. So make a commitment with your partner to work hard on restoring your marriage. For God loves a beautiful marriages. He blesses a happy matrimonial home and it provokes the devil.
MY ADVICE:
SET ASIDE YOUR PROBLEMS
Try your best by trying not talk about them at all. bring them up even once. Instead, put your energies into trying to connect. Resolve your differences in a calm and matured way , try and fall in love over and over again, this can be achieved by concentrating only on those things you love in your partner, and avoid going out to look for comfort when there are issues in your marriage, stay home and work it out.
STEP AWAY FROM YOUR PROBLEMS and spend your time and energy doing specific relationship building activities.
And again before you deal with your problems, you first have to build a good relationship with your spouse, so that you can deal with your problems together. This is doable even in the most difficult marital situations.
Lastly, be your partner's best friend. If you are married, it is best to make your spouse your best friend. Marriage between best friends is the best, most successful, fun filled and romantic marriage.
Thank you for reading.
May the joy of the Lord be with us
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Its almost impossible to avoid conflicts in marriages but its more helpful when you focus on the problem rather than the person. And yes the problems need fixing not ignoring. May God help us all
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