Surviving infidelity when you are blamed

Dont be confused or blame yourself for believing you are the cause of your parents unfaithfulness.
You caught your husband or wife in his or her deceit. For the past so many months or even years, he or she has been involved in marital infidelity. You've got some details, but you can never know if this is all of it, or if there is more. Lying has been your betraying partner's calling card.
My advice to you is this, your partner's cheating art is not your fault dont be deceived that is yours and beat yourself to depression when he or she selfishly blames it on you.
My advice:
Try your best in your marriage physically and through prayers and and leave the rest to God.
Thank you for reading.
May the joy of the lord be with us.

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May the joy of God be with us

You're mad, your hurt… and you're scared.

But the worst of it, you're cheating spouse is blaming you for the marital infidelity!

Dealing with infidelity

Your cheating spouse is giving you a long list of reasons why it was alright for him or her to cheat. And at the top of this list is something that he or she identifies that you did or did not do that lead to his or her getting involved with another person outside the marriage.

You are vulnerable. Your partner is blaming you for his or her folly. You feel so overwhelmed and confused. You wonder, maybe he or she it is right—that you are responsible for his or her marital infidelity?

Your partner's words of blame are self-serving and selfish. Either he or she is trying to get you to feel guilty so you won't want to talk about the affair which essentially "shuts you up" and makes dealing with infidelity impossible or he or she does not have the strength of character to accept responsibility and then struggle with the feelings of guilt and shame for what he or she has done.

Don't accept his or her nonsense that you are to blame—this is not part of dealing with infidelity. Recovering from an affair requires truthfulness. Nobody forces somebody to befriend someone, spend time with them and have sex together.

It is true, your partner may have been unhappy in the marriage and you may have contributed to that unpleasantness, however you did not make your partner commit marital infidelity and become a lover to someone outside of the marriage. That was your cheating partner's choice to do so.

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