Tuesday, 11 April 2017


As people, we evolve, and so should our relationship/marriage. The same way we try to re-inventt ourselves, our looks and appearances, so should we reinvent our relationships, not only to keep things fresh, but also to grow together with our spouse. Are you wondering if your relationship or marriage is in need of some re-invention? Here are a few things you and your 'honey' can do to put things right again. 

1. TRY SOMETHING NEW: You keep doing the same routine, the conversations are plain and sometimes flat, you can't even remember the last time you guys did something romantic. This is a clear signal that boredom has set into your relationship and you are left with no other alternative than to go for something exciting and romantic. Try adding something new, for example, go on dates with adventure, e.g. sight seeing, traveling. Sharing new experience is a sure way to building new connections with your spouse and put life back into a boring marriage or relationship. 

2. SPONTANEOUS SEX: Sometimes, it can get to a point in your marriage when sex begins to feel like chore. This tends to happen when settling into marriage, we enter into it with sex as top priority and then over time, it gets pushed further and further down the to-do-list. Actually, the fact that its even on your to-do-list is an issue. Strange as it sounds, some couples actually plan when to have sex because they're possibly both too immersed in their careers and  work. Truth is, this can't work for everyone. And surely, you're taking the excitement out of sex when you plan it in advance. Planned sex automatically becomes boring sex. Create room for sexual intimacy and be more spontaneous. Once you find you're both alone in the house, get flirty with each other, and you don't have to end up in the bedroom, the living room, the bathroom, are all yours for the taking!

3. CREATE SPECIAL TIME FOR BOTH OF YOU: When you start operating as individuals under the same roof rather than a a couple, then its time for an intimacy face lift. Having your own Me-time is important, but togetherness is part of being in a relationship. Get to know your partner again. Take 10-15 minutes each day to unplug from the world and focus on one another. Sit down and chat or go for a walk. You could also decide to spend that time in side your bedroom, watching your favourite movie or program, cuddled up in each other's arms. 

4. SERVE HIM HIS FAVOURITE MEAL: When was the last time you attempted to cook him his favourite meal? You probably have not done so in a long time perhaps because the meal requires quite a bit of effort to prepare. Ask yourself why you're not prompted to go out of your way for your man anymore? Remember back then when you went out of your way to show him your culinary skills just to make him feel special? Its time you start making him feel special again. 

5. WHERE IS YOUR LINGERIE?: Your lace G-strings have been hidden for so long, you have even forgotten they were there. The sexiest you get at night for your man is wearing an over sized t-shirt. Reach down and bring out your lingeries, it's time to get sexy again. 

6. PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR LADY PARTS: Your lady parts seem to be in need of some landscaping. You don't trim the hedges or keep a clean shave anymore because you're no longer worried about bedroom impressions. If he loves you, he shouldn't bother about the jungle down there, right? Yes, but, no. Keeping things manicured shows him you're still trying to look sexy for him. Appearances aren't everything, but physical attraction does matter. 

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