6 MISTAKES YOU MUST NOT MAKE WHILE DATING

In a perfect world, dating would be fun and exciting. Unfortunately, not everyone is dating for the right reason. How can a woman make the dating experience worthwhile? How can she end up with the sort of relationship that she desires without making the same kind of mistakes she's probably made in the past? Truth is, it is never going to be easy achieving these things. But she can can start by avoiding these top six dating mistakes.

JEALOUSY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP: 5 WAYS TO DEAL WITH IT

Jealousy in a relationship is never easy to handle. It is absolutely normal to be jealous in a relationship when you're in love. But jealousy must never be shoved or pushed under the carpet. The only way to deal with it is to confront it. Nobody wakes up in the morning and decides to start feeling jealous about his or her partner. Sometimes, you just feel jealous because because your partner is spending too much time with his/her friends and not paying enough attention to you. Sometimes, it could be simply because your partner is hugging and holding the hands of an attractive looking male or female friend for too long. And when this sort of jealousy continues to burn inside you, insecurity begins to set in. This is when that overwhelming fear of possibly losing your partner starts to gnaw at you and tear you apart. Here are 5 ways to help you deal with that jealous rage inside of you before it ruins your relationship or marriage. 

HOW TO MAKE HIM CRAVE FOR YOU ALL THE TIME

A lot of times, most women in love throw caution to the dogs and fall flat in love. They feel that its okay to be all over a guy you like once you sense he likes you too. Yes, its okay. Sometimes. Truth is, a lot of times, men quickly lose desire in a girl that's all over them from the word go. But when you make the guy sweat a little, make him want you more, then you might just something strong and enduring on your hands. Here's five ways to make him miss you all the time and want you more. 

GOING THROUGH YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE: WHY IT MAY NOT BE A GOOD IDEA

Ask 20 women if they have have at one point or the other gone through their partners phone and you're likely to find that only one out of the 20 ladies will tell you she doesn't go through her man's phone. No matter how trusting a woman can be of her man, at some point in the relationship, especially if the relationship begins to stretch into months and then a year upwards, there would be moments when she'll have doubts about her partner's sincerity. When this happens, the woman starts to monitor her partner's movement. She begins to question his every move and read all sorts of meanings into his words and actions. And one of the habits most women develop when doubts and distrust begin to set into the relationship is going through her man's phone behind his back to see if she can find new female names and contacts, and most importantly, love messages sent to her by another woman. This is something most women are guilty of. They go through their partner's messages and begin to confront him on some of the seemingly romantic messages she found in the phone. Some do not even stop there, they also go ahead to call some of the female contacts and confront the ones they suspect are dating their man. But this action, a lot of times, have backfired. Here are four reasons why it may not be a good idea to go through your man's phone and begin to call up female contacts you suspect are dating your man!

SEX DENIAL AS PUNISHMENT: THE DANGER

Every now and then, little misunderstandings are bound to come up in our relationships and marriages as well. What will be most significant is how well we respond to these issues when they come up. What is important is for us to learn to be rational while dealing with problems that spring up in our relationships. While some people are careful enough to take quite sensible actions, others tend to do the unreasonable, such as denying your partner sex just because you're not happy with him. Yes, some could argue that it has worked for them, but the fact remains that it will do more harm than good and the following are the reasons why.

6 WAYS TO BOND WITH YOUR CHILDREN

These days, one of the biggest challenges parents face is their inability to give as much time as they would've loved to their children. Early in the morning most parents are up and already hitting the road to get on with the day's work or business. By the time the parents are getting ready for work or business, the kids are also getting ready for school. And by the time mum and dad return home in late the evening the kids are probably in bed, asleep. There's barely time to bond. There's no time to monitor the kids growth and progress in the school. Parents say they've got to work hard to make enough money to provide for the kids, but still, making out time for them is as essential as making enough money to give them the best things in life. Here are six ways you can bond with your children.

5 KEY THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT SEX

Sex can be really exciting. As a matter of fact, it is the most exciting experience in the world, going by the standards of many people. Yet, it does come with its own little issues. Two of them is infection and the other is the smell the male and female semen can emit during love making. For a lot of women, they have found the issue of smell to be major problem. Some even think the smell problem is peculiar to them alone. They use all sorts of things to wash their vagina just so they can smell nice down there. But sometimes, this might not be such a great idea. Here are five important things you should know about sex.

*Stop using all manner of stuffs to wash your vagina after sex. Many ladies think this helps them keep infections away, but it doesn't always work that way. Medical experts say that this could lead to more infections because it tends to upset the natural balance of bacteria which tends to protect the vagina. They advise that a mild vaginal smell is normal and may not be a sign of a problem. 

*Practice simple clean up. Yes, we know that sex smells, but do not start fretting just because of this. Get a warm water, and possibly with a mild soap and clean up yourself gently after sex. This will protect you and your partner from infections. Wash the area around (not inside) your genitals with warm water. Avoid scented tampons, powders sprays, if you notice you pick infections easily.

*Don't hold back your urine. People are usually advised not to hold back urine after sex because during sex bacteria could get into the urethra, which is the tube that carries urine out of your body. So, when you pee, you are able to flush those germs in the process. 

*Drink a lot of water. Not necessarily a lot of water, but just enough to keep you hydrated and help you pee more. It usually helps when you drink water after sex. This enables you flush out more bacteria from your system before infections can come up. 

*Always wash your hands. This is more applicable if there is a delay in having a shower after sex and it is to prevent the spread of bacteria. Washing your hands is the best way to stop the spread of bacteria you might pick up from touching your genitals and that of your partner. Once the love making is over and you can't hit the shower afterwards, then you must try to wash your hands.

7 OBVIOUS SIGNS YOUR BOSS MAY WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU

It is a common scenario, right? Every now and then you hear ladies whose bosses are male complain about their boss flirting with them or outrightly asking them out. Sometimes, things go well. Sometimes, they don't.  There are, for example, instances where the lady politely turns down her boss love overtures and the man takes it nicely and maturely and they both move on. But there have also been instances where things don't quite work out like that. It's either the lady gets sacked or she's frustrated to a point where she has to put in her resignation. And yes, some have been even luckier. They go on to have some really blissful relationship with their boss while some have gotten married to their boss. Different strokes for different strokes, right? Which ever side of the divide you belong, here are seven obvious signs your boss wants to sleep with you.

5 SECRETS OF SEXUALLY SATISFIED COUPLES

You keep hearing about some women who enjoy fabulous sex lives with their partners. Everything appears to be falling into place for them. Great sex life, amazing partner and a wonderful family. But how do they manage to keep it hot, especially as they have a couple of kids and more than a few years together? They certainly must have a lot going for them and we will let you in on about five of them.

6 BIG LIES MEN TELL TO DECEIVE WOMEN

One of the greatest fears of women when dealing with men is the fact that they're often wary of the lies men tell. It is common knowledge among women that men lie a lot. A man can spin up any kind of lie just to get in between the legs of a woman he admires. Often times, they do not even give a hoot about the repercussions of the lies they tell or the emotional effect it might have on the woman, so long as they get what they want, then the end has justified the means. Even as more and more women are getting the wiser and only take men with a pinch of salt these days, yet, at some point, they still fall for the smooth, sweet-talking men who sweep them off their feet so quickly and before they know it, they have let down their guard and the men already have them eating from the palm of their hands. Here are 6 BIG lies men tell to get  women.

FOR MEN ONLY: How Your Reckless Lifestyle Can Lead to Infertility

Have you noticed lately that, since the last couple of years, more and more young men have been indulging in extremely reckless lifestyle that could be injurious to their health? Have you also noticed the upsurge and abuse of hazardous drugs like Codein, Tramadol and the likes? It is becoming a disturbing trend among men. Despite the efforts of the government to reduce the influx of these substances into the market, they continue to find their way into the wrong hands and cause untold damages to their reproductive system. This often always results in infertility, which in simple terms means the inability of the man to produce sufficient quantity and quality sperm capable of triggering conception in a woman. This is a serious problem, one that can bring untold pain to a man who has been incapable of getting his young wife pregnant.

BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY! THE POWER OF YOUR WORDS COULD MAKE OR BREAK YOUR MARRIAGE!!

How do you speak to your partner? How do you both restrain from losing your cool and speaking harsh words to each other when you're angry or arguing? Do you show respect to each other and consider each other's feelings when you're both arguing? One of the major problems couples face in their relationships or marriages is that sometimes they do not realize the power of the words they say to their partners. If you say positive things to your lover or about them in the presence of others, it may go a long way in inspiring them and making them feel good about the relationship. And if it's something negative? Then you can be sure the effect could be unpleasant. Below are five tips that can help you choose your words better, no matter the circumstances.

6 TYPES OF GUYS BABES DON'T WANT TO MARRY

Yes, we know there are thousands of unmarried women out there who are desperately searching for partners. They want a man to call their own, a man who will devote himself only to them and whom they can spend the rest of their days with. A man who will be a loving husband and a fantastic father to the children. But, sadly, men like these are in short supply these days. It takes pure miracle to find this sort of men. So, desperate as the ladies may seem, they still take their time. They know exactly what they want in a man and many of them are not willing to bend their standards just so that they can also be known as Mrs. Somebody. The following are the six types of men Naija ladies won't touch a NEPA length pole, even if they're desperately searching for a partner.

HOW TO KNOW YOU'RE NOT IN LOVE ANYMORE

Being in love can really be a beautiful thing, apologies to the Koko Master, Dbanj. Yes, it can be heavenly. You feel like you're flying without wings. Nothing could provoke you. Nothing could hurt you. Because you know there's somebody out there who cares a great deal about you and loves you like crazy. Sadly, for some of us, this feeling doesn't get to last long sometimes. We find ourselves falling out of love, sometimes for obvious reasons, and at some other times, we do not even realize we're falling out of love. You only just realize you guys are slowly drifting apart. Here are a few signs that show to you that you no longer love your partner like you used to.

6 TYPES OF WOMEN GUYS ARE SCARED TO MARRY

There will always be this subject about guys not wanting to settle down. Truth is that, apart from the frightening economic situation in Naija presently, which has seriously damaged the pockets of hitherto potential husbands, a lot of guys are also finding it hard to find the right kind of woman that meets their expectations. Some women don't just cut it for a lot of men. Below is a list of some of the types of women a lot of guys are scared to marry. Kindly go through it slowly and see if, by any chance, you fall into any of the categories.

7 SIMPLE REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD HAVE REGULAR SEX WITH YOUR WIFE/HUBBY

Unknown to many people, there are quite a handful of health benefits that can be derived from having regular sex with your partner, especially if you're both married. To some, sex can be quite a stress and they only allow their partners have their way with them just so that there won't be wahala in the house. But majority of people do enjoy sex, but only a few of them do realize there is more to it than just the pleasure they derive from it. Here are seven reasons why you should be having regular sex with your partner.

5 MISTAKES YOU MUST NOT MAKE WHILE MAKING LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER

Love making between couples who love each other dearly can be really sweet. For two people who love each other, love making is a time to bond. It's a time to physically express your profound feelings for each other through love making and reassure yourselves of your undying love for each other. But it can also go awfully wrong if something unpleasant happens right in the middle of it. Here are five mistakes you must not make while making love with your sweetheart, they  can be a big turn off.

6 WAYS TO MAKE A BETTER WIFE IN 2019

Whether we admit it or not, there is nothing like a perfect union. And there probably will never be. Every marriage goes through it's own rough patches. The important thing is for every couple to be passionate enough about their union to deal with the issues when they come and move on. So, whatever your marriage is presently going through, you must tell yourself it will be over soon because you and your man are definitely going to deal with it. Now, the new year is just around the corner, You certainly don't want to go into the new year still carrying all the grudge and bitterness you have for your hubby. Start things on a clean slate. Tell yourself this year will be a much better year for your marriage. Seek more happiness than you got in 2018. Seek more joy and romance than you experienced in your marriage in 2018. And the following tips are what we think might just help you achieve that.