Thou shalt remember to do all the little things for thy wife when you say you will. (Mt 5:37)
Jesus instructs all Christians, "let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no' and anything beyond these is of evil." Mt 5:37. Husbands, when you say you will do something for your wife, have the consideration to do it! Why should she justifiably nag you?
Your wife shouldn't have to get you to sign some binding oath to get you to make the bed, take out the garbage or take her out to dinner as you agreed. By doing what you say you will, you earn her trust in other areas.
Ever wonder why your wife reacts is a funny way?
Wife's Reaction
Husband's Action
When the wife feels insecure.
The husband is not being a spiritual leader.
When the wife takes matters into her own hands and assumes the leadership role.
The husband has allowed problems to continue and even get worse.
When the children rebel, the wife blames her husband.
The husband has not supported his wife in disciplining the children.
When the wife becomes resentful of financial pressures.
The husband has been spending extra money on things he enjoys.
When the wife feels inferior and jealous.
The husband praises or admires other women.
When the wife feels unable to totally give herself (body, soul and spirit) to her husband.
The husband only verbalizes his love when he wants a physical relationship.
When the wife feels frustration from not knowing how to please her husband.
The husband doesn't praise her for specific things.
When the wife turns to others who will listen to her true feelings.
The husband doesn't make the time to listen to his wife.
When the wife feels unprotected.
The husband has not been alert to the dangers which his wife faces.
When the wife feels inadequate in trying to meet her husband's physical needs.
The husband has been lusting after other women.
When a wife mentally gives up and loses all hope
The husband is prideful, never in the wrong, loses his temper to stay in control and never asks for forgiveness.
C
Jesus instructs all Christians, "let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no' and anything beyond these is of evil." Mt 5:37. Husbands, when you say you will do something for your wife, have the consideration to do it! Why should she justifiably nag you?
Your wife shouldn't have to get you to sign some binding oath to get you to make the bed, take out the garbage or take her out to dinner as you agreed. By doing what you say you will, you earn her trust in other areas.
Ever wonder why your wife reacts is a funny way?
Wife's Reaction
Husband's Action
When the wife feels insecure.
The husband is not being a spiritual leader.
When the wife takes matters into her own hands and assumes the leadership role.
The husband has allowed problems to continue and even get worse.
When the children rebel, the wife blames her husband.
The husband has not supported his wife in disciplining the children.
When the wife becomes resentful of financial pressures.
The husband has been spending extra money on things he enjoys.
When the wife feels inferior and jealous.
The husband praises or admires other women.
When the wife feels unable to totally give herself (body, soul and spirit) to her husband.
The husband only verbalizes his love when he wants a physical relationship.
When the wife feels frustration from not knowing how to please her husband.
The husband doesn't praise her for specific things.
When the wife turns to others who will listen to her true feelings.
The husband doesn't make the time to listen to his wife.
When the wife feels unprotected.
The husband has not been alert to the dangers which his wife faces.
When the wife feels inadequate in trying to meet her husband's physical needs.
The husband has been lusting after other women.
When a wife mentally gives up and loses all hope
The husband is prideful, never in the wrong, loses his temper to stay in control and never asks for forgiveness.
C
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