8 secrets behind my happy marriage - My True Story

Today I wish to share with you some secrets behind my happy marriage. I'm sure you would love to know why even after 10 years of marriage we still are as happy as newly married couple. Take some time to read through, you may have something to learn from this...

8 Crazy Things Woman (mostly unmarried) do to their Men that are "Silent Turn Off"

Everyone, particularly women, seem to be of the impression that its only men who are capable of doing some really terrible stuff to women. Women can do no wrong, but men? They are the heartless and insensitive creatures. No problems. But take a close look at these 8 crazy things you may probably be doing to your man and see if you still think men are the only ones that do crazy stuffs to women....

10 Key Challenges and Difficulties Men face in Their Marriages, and Why

Talking about issues in marriage, women are not always on the receiving end. Men too face some challenges and difficulties in their marriages, some of which are caused by wives. Today I'll like to share with you some of those challenges, and I hope our women will improve after reading this piece and stop putting their men through this unfortunate situations...

TEN WAYS A GUY CAN CONFIRM HE'S TRULY IN LOVE

A lot of times, we have heard men say things like, "no, I'm not in love, I just like the babe." It's either some of us guys are too ashamed to admit we're in love, possibly because we think it's 'unmanly' to be in love, or because we sincerely have absolutely no idea what it means to be in love. Well, I have decided to help you guys out of your dilemma and I'm even prepared to do it for free! Here are ten sure ways to confirm you're truly in love or not.

1. Distance no longer...

How Crazy is Loving Someone Who Does Not "Deserve Your Love"? The story of Kingsley!

The moment he stepped into my office, I knew he was a man in serious distress. He sounded pretty distraught on the phone, when he called to request a meeting with me, but I wasn't quite expecting he was in such bad shape. I'd only met Kingsley once when a 'Thank you' party was organised for readers of the magazine I was editing at the time.

"I need your help, Mr. Wale," he'd started, his head bowed as he covered his face with his hands. 

"Go on, I'm listening," I'd urged him on when I saw he was taking too long to continue. 

"It's the woman I want to marry..."

"What about her?" I queried.

"I think she's going to kill me!"

I was speechless. I didn't understand him one bit. He explained.

"I met Sandra three years ago and it was love at first sight. Or so I thought. Before I met Sandra, I'd had my own fair share of women. I have dated the prettiest babes any guy can possibly come across. I have broken a few hearts out there but never...

HOW TRUSTWORTHY IS YOUR FRIEND?

How trustworthy are your female friends?  Do you tell them all your secrets?  Do you tell them how many men you have been with? How many abortions you have had and how good your man is in bed?  How you snatched Chioma's boyfriend. How the son you have with Tony doesn't belong to him.... 

The problem of women most times is caused by

10 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN - Learn in a lighter mood

Believe it or not, no matter how much we pride ourselves that we know a great a deal about our women, often always, we get to realize there's a really great deal about them we don't know. I have always thought women were and still are the most beautiful yet complex creature created by the Almighty. You almost need to be specially gifted to have a clear comprehension of how the mind of a woman works. But trust me, once you get to understand your woman perfectly, they can be the most adorable treasure to possess.And yes, they can love you for life, even if it means sacrificing their own happiness to see you happy. Here a few things men should also know about women. As casual and as unserious these things may seem, they can cause serious friction if not properly handled.

1. If you run into your ex-girlfriend in public in company of your woman, the first thing you MUST do is

A TWISTED VIEW OF MARRIAGE!!!

It is unbelievable the kinds of views different people have about marriage. It must be said that some of them have some of the most disturbing and annoying views any woman can stomach. You can not begin to imagine how warped some of these views and opinions are. 

Let us start this way:People will see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business, they'll say "Ahh, Oga Victor, go and marry so you'll stop washing".

They'll see a man cooking and be like

HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY

A lot of times, some men practically struggle to decipher the right things to do to make their wife happy. Some achieve this once in a while, but the challenge soon becomes how to keep her happy, for when you have a woman in the house that is happy almost all of the time, then you can be sure your home will be a haven. That is the sort of home any man would look forward to coming home to after a hard day's job. You want to experience that kind of home? The following are a few tips you can work on if you're a truly loving and affectionate man who desires nothing but to see his wife happy all the time. 

BEAUTIFUL RECEPTION: After returning from work, school, travel or

CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU

There are articles written against married men cheating on their wives. The Bible is against it, Preachers preach against it all the time. But today I want to not just condemn those men, I want to also advice women not to encourage these men. 

 

It's quite unfortunate that men sometimes can not control their sexual desires, in fact, they can but they don't try good enough to. They derive so much joy in cheating, sometimes at the detriment of their lives and the lives of their kids and wives. They chose to satisfy their sexual urge and risk getting infected with STDs and passing on to their wives, they don't even care about the fact that they can die and leave their kids to suffer. Sometimes they spend so much money on womanizing, paying girls for sex that they can't even solve financial issues at home. They don't even care about the shame they bring to their wife for their habits. That is how selfish some men can be. They risk everything just to satisfy their sexual desire.

 

Some ladies make cheating easy for the men. They practically throw themselves at men, even when they know the man is married. Especially if he's rich or famous. My question to these ladies is, ' do you intend to get married in future?' 'And if you intend to, then how will you feel if other girls throw themselves at your husband or accept his request to date them?'. We as women can all put our feet down and make extramarital affairs difficult for men. The married women can do so by looking their best for their husbands, look as good as you can be and keep him attracted to you alone. Don't refuse him sex all the time. 

 

And to the single ladies, have more respect for your bodies. Turn these men down when you know they are married. Start a business or get a job, don't rely on a married man to survive. There is so much satisfaction and pride in making money through honest and respectable means. And if you are already dating married men or sleeping with them for money, it's never too late to stop. 

 

There's no shame in stopping, nobody is perfect, you can just take that to be your past mistakes. And do not get intimidated by the girls flashing designer wears and human hair on social media, be proud of yourself for respecting your body and been self-made. God will bless your honest hustle in due time. As for the men who have beautiful wives at home but chose to be dogs, sleeping with everything in skirt, you should be ashamed of yourselves. Why not remain single if you can't stick to one woman? And the few faithful husbands, May God bless you abundantly.