It is unbelievable the kinds of views different people have about marriage. It must be said that some of them have some of the most disturbing and annoying views any woman can stomach. You can not begin to imagine how warped some of these views and opinions are.
Let us start this way:People will see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business, they'll say "Ahh, Oga Victor, go and marry so you'll stop washing".
A mother will look at his 35years old son who cannot wash his own boxers, boil water for tea or even make his own bed, a 35years old that cannot take his plates to the kitchen after eating and tell him "James, you need to settle down, get a woman to take care of you". SERIOUSLY??
In different ways, the society subconsciously tells men that they don't marry women for any reason other than cleaning, cooking and childbearing. I begin to wonder, does the average man needs a wife or a glorified maid?
Many women look three times their age all because of stress and exhaustion. You sit down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she's about to pass out. REALLY?? 
Men, who told you that it is wrong to wash your own plates?
Who told you that it is wrong to wash your own clothes?
Who told you that it is wrong to dress your bed when you wake up?
What will it take to help your partner with chores in the house?
If a man wanted to be adopted as a child to be pet, pampered, fed and nursed. Then, he needs not to seek marriage, he should rather offer himself up for an adoption at a motherless home to be picked up.
BUT If you want a wife, who you would love, cherish, do different things with, assist in some chores, and love her for the rest of your life, then get married.
AND if you are getting married because you feel you're becoming too old to do your own chores then get a maid.
Women are to be cherished, pampered and loved, not USED.
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