Friday, 3 March 2017


So are you happy or unhappy in love? Here are 16 clear signs that can help you understand if you're in a relationship that isn't worth holding on to. Can you relate to at least a few of these signs in your own relationship?
All of us have our own thresholds when it comes to sacrifices and enduring pain in the hope of a better relationship. But if you feel like you're fighting a losing battle while trying to bring happiness into your romance, ask yourself if you see these signs in your own love life.
1 The spark is missing. You don't know why you're in the relationship anymore. The romance is missing, there's no chemistry or companionship, and both of you just exist in each other's lives without any special reason. Sometimes, you secretly wonder why both of you are even together in the first place?
2 You're hurting. You're misunderstood, hurt or angry all the time. Sometimes, you don't even know why, but just thinking of your partner hurts you or annoys you. And sadly, even if you haven't given this a thought, you haven't been happy for a very long time.
3 You're being taken for granted. Your partner uses you, manipulates your understanding nature and takes you for granted, no matter how nice you are to them. You've been doing all the giving, in the hope that your partner will see how selfless and loving you are, and change for the better some day.
4 You don't see a future. You're satisfied with your relationship, and you're happy-ish. But every time you're alone or try to see where your relationship is going, your mind tells you that your relationship has no future. And as hard as you try to visualize a perfect tomorrow, you can't see your partner as a long-term lover.
5 Uninvolved. Your partner doesn't care enough to play an active part in your life, nor do they even try to understand your life. They're emotionally uninvolved and unavailable, even when you try to make them feel involved.
to be continued tomorrow

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