Saturday, 11 March 2017

Huge Mistakes Women Always Make In Relationships

The problem with women is that they want bad boys; but they expect these bad boys to be good men to them. They assume that they will be the woman to change the guy from been a bad boy to becoming a good man. You can't choose to marry or date a cheat, a player, a woman beater and expect him not to do all those things to you. You can't sleep with your friend's boyfriend and eventually snatch him from her and expect him to be faithful to you, he will cheat on you the same way he cheated on her. Girls often choose bad boys or players over good men, because they see the good men as boring. Well, don't complain when your fun boyfriend starts to treat you like trash and cheats on you with everything in skirt. I've seen girls turn down good men that love and worship them for players. And funny enough, they expect to have a wonderful, sweet and ever lasting relationship with these players. You have a choice to either choose a man that values you and be treated like a queen for the rest of your life. Or choose a man that is a player and get played and heart broken for the rest of your life. Don't ever think you have the power to change a man.

You see a man playing women around and you get turned on by that, you want to be with him because you think he's hot for women to be all over him. Well, it won't be fun any more when he eventually breaks your heart and mistreat you till you lose confidence in yourself. A man that is meant for you and truly values you will change willingly the moment he chooses to be with you, because he loves you genuinely and doesn't want to lose you. My advice to women: marry a man that loves you more than you love him. That man will never fall out of love with you or do anything to lose you. He will always do things to please and keep you. You are beautiful in your own unique way, and you deserve a man that will adore you, love you and treat you like you are the only woman in the world. Don't settle for anything less than that, men hardly grow in love, instead they get bored and want a change of woman, if he doesn't love you enough now, he won't love you more later.

Be patient, don't be desperate, your own man will come. The one that will love you and everything about you. And when you meet him, don't push him away because he doesn't have a few other qualities you want in a man. What matters the most is, he should love you to a fault, he should have a job or business. Don't ever over look serious flaws you see in a man and go ahead to settle with him. If you notice that he is a player, or a violent man, or a cheat then don't be blinded by love. No matter how he pretends, you will notice those bad sides if you are not too blinded by love. When you notice all those things, run, don't over look them and go ahead to marry him. Don't be deceived by his pretence and smooth talk. Don't be pushed by family or friends either. You are the one getting married to him not them. They say "he who wears the shoe, knows where it pinches the most". Dont be fooled. Be the police of your heart and life and stay clear of such men.
posted from Bloggeroid

1 comment:

  1. Waooo!!! This is a piece I have personal experience from while I was still abroad. You've said it all Teekay. Nice piece.