It’s always vital not to leave a bad impression when you
jump in the sack with your guy. Try cutting out the following, and he’ll be
your friend for life.
For most people, sex is life and life is sex. The search for
sexual pleasure cannot be compromised for anything. There is a general fixation
on sex and anything related to it. What it is and how it is performed have kept
many people-young and old- fascinated. People everywhere are constantly trying
to better their performance in bed and to give their partners the best sexual
pleasure they can.
But things don’t always go according to plan, because great
sex seems always to elude many people to the extent that, rather than make
their partners happy, they seem always to create dissatisfaction and at times,
annoyance. Both parties are to blame for this state of sordid affairs, but to
be specific, attention will be focused on those things that the females do that
guys just positively dislike. Gone are the days when it was generally believed
that guys are the only ones who can go wrong. If you’re a girl and you’re
reading this, try not to commit the following sins…
THE
FEMALE LOG
During sex, some women have this annoying habit of just
lying down like a log of wood. Sure, women are takers and men are givers, but
doing nothing and just taking seems a bit selfish, men don’t like this. Despite
the fact that the man is on top, the woman should move and flow with the
rhythm. By moving, you show your man that you love to have sex with him as much
as he loves to have it with you. This not only makes him happy, but it
encourages him in more ways than one. If your man is the type who cares about
giving you pleasure and you lie there looking like you’re dead, then it might
just affect his sexual performance, because no one loves to make love to a
‘dead’ woman.
THE
LIPLESS BABE
Men hate it when women don’t use their lips. Almost every
woman would agree that she likes to be kissed. Well, same goes for the men.
They love it when women kiss them all over. This simply drives them crazy. If
you want to satisfy your man in bed, kiss him, tease him and play with him. But
if you want a recipe for a break up, then keep your lips to yourself.
THE
CONTROL HATER
Guys hate it when women expect to be controlled all the time
in bed. It’s true that a man should take control of the situation, but when he
finds himself doing this all the time, then he would soon tire of the whole
shenanigan. The only type of women who think that men should take all the control
in bed are the old fashioned women. Modern day, proactive women assume some
measure of control, or share control. Taking control send a strong message to
the guy that you want it now! Dictate the pace and tell him what you want to do
and what you want him to do to you, and you can be sure your man will be very
excited and pleased. Sometimes, men just like to be controlled.
THE
INSENSITIVE MATE
Insensitive women put men off. Just because you’re a woman
and you expect to have a sensitive man at your beck and call doesn’t mean you
can’t reciprocate in the same way. A man’s body is really sensitive and a woman
who doesn’t know or take advantage of this can find herself ostracized
emotionally. Ladies, don’t be egotistic, do your best to make him feel as good
as he makes you feel.
THE SHY
GIRL
Men are tired of taking the initiative to ‘turn on the
heater; whenever the sex life gets tepid. They don’t always like to be the ones
doing all the necessary moves needed to put a little shine on the sex. Once in
a while, they’d love it when you take the bull by the horn and show up in the
bedroom adorned in some sexy new outfit. While you’re still wearing that sex
outfit, slow dance in a seductive manner and you’ll drive him crazy. Little
teasing with sexy clothes gets them all excited about the upcoming sex. So
ladies, don’t be shy. A shy woman in bed can make a guy curl up on the far side
of the bed after it’s all over.
(Written by my colleague, Wale Lawal)
(Written by my colleague, Wale Lawal)
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