Saturday, 4 March 2017


6. Sexual intimacy. You can't remember the last time both of you made love. You've tried your best to bring the sizzle back into the bedroom, but your partner prefers to turn the other way and feign sleep. And it feels worse when you catch your partner admiring others when both of you are walking down a street.
7 What holds both of you together? Are you in the relationship or marriage only because of the baggage that holds the both of you together? If the reason for the existence of the romantic relationship isn't love, then you're only fooling yourself if you believe it'll ever bring you any happiness.
8 Deep trust issues. You don't trust your partner anymore. There may be a genuine reason for the lack of trust, or perhaps, both of you just have different expectations from each other when it comes to trust and believing in each other. But unless both of you even the creases on the issue of trust, the love will only fade, and never grow.
9 Different lives. There are no meaningful conversations between the two of you. You have nothing to talk about beyond small talk because your values, vision, and expectations from life are completely different from your partner's views and both of you haven't taken the initiative to find common grounds.
10 Back to square one. It happens all the time. There's a lot of love. And then comes a big fight. And then both of you communicate with each other and end the argument with a lot of love and affection.
And in no time, the same issues crop up all over again, and the same cycle starts all over again. Can both of you ever evolve as a couple if the same issues stagnate your lives and stops both of you from bonding together as a couple?
11 Controlling behavior. People with insecure personalities don't always confront their partner. Instead, they use manipulation, aggression and subtle controlling behavior to manipulate you into believing they're right and you're wrong. And before you know it, you'd feel lost and all alone because you would lose all your friends and turn into your partner's slave.
12 Individual lives. You think you love your partner, and you think you're happy in your relationship. But yet, both of you just live together and have nothing in common, and lead individual lives.
13 People pleasers. Your partner constantly goes overboard to please another person just to impress them and win their fancy. But they'd never ever do anything like that for you.
14 Fault finding. Your partner makes you feel inadequate in the relationship all the time. They treat you like you're not good enough, and always find faults with everything you do. They break you emotionally, and constantly expect you to change for them because you're not good enough!
15 You don't enjoy their company. You dread spending time together with your partner. You feel comfortable hanging out with your lover as long as it's with a group of friends. But every time you have to spend some quality time together, it makes you feel uncomfortable.
16 Respect. Do you respect your partner as an individual? Does your partner respect you? For a relationship to be successful, respect for one another plays a very big part. If there's no respect for each other, then there's surely no hope for the future.
Lets hear you thought on this.
Rubbingminds .

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